Relationship not Religion

 

Since “The Fall” in the “Garden of Eden” humans have sought to reach God to regain the lost relationship

 

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Adam and Eve Expelled
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Many people on this planet accept, the origin of humanity as described in Genesis found in the Pentateuch, the original sin and the banishment from “The Garden of Eden.”  Yet even many people who do not know about this story seem to instinctively seek God if not a god.  There are atheists in the world and what this writing is about probably will not be of interest to them; agnostics on the other hand may be stirred, even transformed into seekers.

Humans invented religion in hope of reconnecting or connecting with God.

Couple: Religion The Miriam and Ira D. Wallach Division of Art, Prints and Photographs: Photography Collection, The New York Public Library. "Religion, Mural, Library of Congress, Washington, D. C." New York Public Library Digital Collections. Accessed March 23, 2016. http://digitalcollections.nypl.org/items/510d47d9-9f38-a3d9-e040-e00a18064a99
Couple: Religion
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Religion is the human way of attempting to directly connect with God: please God, appease God or appeal to God.  To that end there are and have been many variations in how people have hoped to achieve this with many forms of religion.   Yet God has not abandoned the relationship that existed since the beginning, in fact,  God has anticipated every question of importance that we the created beings can muse over, and is extant within the Holy Bible.

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From Pixabay.com

If you are among the believers who accept The Genesis story you want to be as Adam and Eve who had walked with God in the garden.  If your belief in God is via a different source or a Selected Scripture you may simply desire to establish direct contact with God.  The key in all of this is, many people seem to recognize a being above ourselves with various degrees of supernatural attributes and, we want to know and have companionship with this being.  I myself believe in God the Creator and Supreme Being found in The Holy Bible.

When humans are humbled by the knowledge of a powerful God good things happen.

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We need guidance; we need explanations; we need purpose.  Answering to a “Higher Authority” helps us to avoid evil and seek good: we learn how not to do evil and we learn how to do good. We discover our place, have a hope of experiencing eternal good when we have a relationship with “The One True God.”

As a Christian I have Good News for you.

Yes since “The Fall” in the “Garden of Eden” humans have sought to reach God and regain the lost personal relationship with God.  Many humans invented religions in a hope of achieving this goal. The hard work is already accomplished and you can benefit from the completed work: revelation within the Holy Bible explains all we need to know all we need to do.  If we do not glean an exact answer at first, as Christians we know we have the Holy Spirit’s help.  When we accept what Jesus Christ has done for us we gain the guidance given by The Holly Spirit.  This benefit assists us in knowing God’s principles and how to apply them to all that we face in our lifetime.

Moses The Miriam and Ira D. Wallach Division of Art, Prints and Photographs: Photography Collection, The New York Public Library. "Moses Fountain,Washington Park, Albany, N. Y." New York Public Library Digital Collections. Accessed March 24, 2016. http://digitalcollections.nypl.org/items/510d47d9-a305-a3d9-e040-e00a18064a99
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Holy Scripture reveals God to all who believe.

Yes God has provided answers to these questions for seekers and anyone who wants to know.  Please do not let cultural cliché’s turn you off.  God’s message to us is simple and clear.  When the time was correct (in God’s plan) God directly gave humans knowledge and instruction. In other instances there were times when humans were inspired by God’s Spirit to convey what we needed to know. I believe all the information we humans need is contained within The Holy Bible, and so I will end with selected verses that can help you begin your own relationship with God.

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From Pixabay.com

Selected Scripture for you:

John 10:27 ESV

My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me.

John 1:12 ESV

But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God,

1 John 1:3-4 ESV

That which we have seen and heard we proclaim also to you, so that you too may have fellowship with us; and indeed our fellowship is with the Father and with his Son Jesus Christ. And we are writing these things so that our joy may be complete.

Psalm 19:14 ESV

Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O Lord, my rock and my redeemer.

James 4:8 ESV

Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded.

Revelation 3:20 ESV

Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and eat with him, and he with me.

Get started with these verses:

John 5:24 ESV

Truly, truly, I say to you, whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life. He does not come into judgment, but has passed from death to life.

Romans 10:13 ESV

For “everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.”

John 3:16 ESV

“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.

Affluenza a Dangerous Trend

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I was taught ignorance of the law is no excuse.

 

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The case of the Texas teen who had become intoxicated and drove his pickup truck in such a way as to kill several people neither was he old enough to drive nor drink alcoholic beverages; yet a defense of ignorance seemed to work well enough for him to escape justice with probation only without jail time. Why would an underage child behave in such an irresponsible way?  What did their parents think? How did they react?  Perhaps what their defense attorney presented gives us some idea of this child’s home life. Too Young to Carry on Like an Adult 

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What was behind this miscarriage of justice?  When the defense attorney revealed that the defendant was a member of an affluent family that neither corrected his behavior nor instructed him as to what was right or wrong  an argument that he deserved leniency was offered.  It seems he could not avoid misbehaving because he was not taught how to behave well.  I believe there is a lot wrong with this whole situation and not just the lenient sentence.

The United States of America I grew up in was not shy to put forth a high standard for the conduct of its citizens – juvenile or adult.

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My family used the Ten Commandments as a guide, as did my school, as did my local, State and Federal governments.  My church expounded on the finer details and taught how they applied in our modern world.  No the society in the past was not perfect. Yet even with its problems it did not seem as troubled as it is today.  I think it is more than how the media reports the news.afforded

Movies

The entertainment industry very often used plots that illustrated how the standard for our civilization worked.  In time a process of easing up on the standard began to have an effect however.  Now most movies I consider viewing for enjoyment have some aspect within the story line that makes me cringe.  Not just violence; not just explicit (or nearly explicit) sex.  It is the ever-increasing use of profanity even uttered by young characters that offends my wife and me.

Two World Wars forced humanity to move from Modernism to Post Modernism: Humanity reaped the horrors of war because civilization failed to protect people from wide-spread manifestations of evil.

Tomb Stones The Miriam and Ira D. Wallach Division of Art, Prints and Photographs: Photography Collection, The New York Public Library. "Arlington, Va. [View of rows of white tombstones]." New York Public Library Digital Collections. Accessed February 17, 2016. http://digitalcollections.nypl.org/items/510d47e1-ba06-a3d9-e040-e00a18064a99
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Thinkers within the sphere of philosophy led the way into relativism, but soon artists, writers and then governments became energized with this liberal way of thinking.  It did not take long before every day citizens embraced the new liberal way of life as well.  One by one taboos fell.  One by one standards slackened.  One by one even some offensive aspects of society were displayed unblushingly because of this new-found freedom.  It did not seem to matter who was offended as long as free speech and liberal behavior was allowed free rein. Consequences in this mind-set are to be ignored at the worst or minimized at best.

Cultural upheaval was more than “Sex, Drugs and Rock’n’roll” it also invaded government, schools and even some churches.

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Ordinary people – the everyday family with a stay at home mom and working dad – were bath in a constant din of movements bringing forth some obscure minority view than, insisting on a change in its favor.  This new definition of what was good could dominate everything despite the reality that it was only promoted by a few; now the many had to allow the few to define what our civilization would be like instead of the other way around.

I was taught in classes on citizenship that in The U.S.A the majority rule included a safe guard for minority views as the many set our nation’s course. Could a real sociological and cultural Apocalypse be in our future? Perhaps like the dystopia portrayed in Clockwork Orange (movie from 1971) 

Junk The Miriam and Ira D. Wallach Division of Art, Prints and Photographs: Photography Collection, The New York Public Library. "Shabby houses and junk across street from new apartment house. Washington, D.C." New York Public Library Digital Collections. Accessed February 17, 2016. http://digitalcollections.nypl.org/items/ba309cea-9140-4288-e040-e00a18066c61 Tomb Stones X
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Today it appears the minorities set our course and the majority view is not safe guarded but rather demonized.  Can an old-fashioned view of our culture lead to punishment of people who belong to this majority view?  Consequences that offend, weaken and erode the fabric of our nation often seem irrelevant.

Once again I state as a Christian, that the standard for individuals and nations is revealed within The Holy Bible.  Instead of seeking out hypocrisy and failings of some people declaring these principles as a failure, we as a nation we should examine all the good that the principles contained in The Holy Bible have provided for humanity.  These principles have improved the state of humanity and should be reexamined and in my opinion re-applied to our society and culture.

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Church The Miriam and Ira D. Wallach Division of Art, Prints and Photographs: Print Collection, The New York Public Library. "Trinity Church, N.Y." New York Public Library Digital Collections. Accessed February 17, 2016. http://digitalcollections.nypl.org/items/510d47da-f35b-a3d9-e040-e00a18064a99
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Excerpts from scripture about consequences for breaking laws:

Colossians 3:25 ESV

For the wrongdoer will be paid back for the wrong he has done, and there is no partiality.

Romans 13:1 ESV

Let every person be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those that exist have been instituted by God.

Proverbs 14:12 ESV

There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death.

Proverbs 20:1 ESV

Wine is a mocker, strong drink a brawler, and / 4 helpful votes whoever is led astray by it is not wise.

Matthew 5:37 ESV

Let what you say be simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything more than this comes from evil.

James 5:12 ESV

But above all, my brothers, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath, but let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no, so that you may not fall under condemnation.

Proverbs 29:15 ESV

The rod and reproof give wisdom, but a child left to himself brings shame to his mother.

Proverbs 11:21 ESV

Be assured, an evil person will not go unpunished, but the offspring of the righteous will be delivered.

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The Rise of Women

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It is ridiculous to think our world can be run by one sex. In In

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“Self Contained Society”
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OK, throughout history variations in culture and tradition make things appear that people have lived (and some may still live) within a society dominated by one sex: either male or female.  I am referring to what societies considered norms not the exceptions: there always seems to be a person (or persons) who is (are) unique and as an exception to the pattern of the society they have lived in.  How people see what is normal is dependent on the milieu they were born and nurtured in, and this may become so firmly embedded within their being that to them it is the only way it can be.  So within the world and at various times people have come to accept a variety of traditions that define roles for Men and Woman: then, what seems to be the standard is actually just the prevailing view.  What is the predominant view from within my society?  From the historical frame of reference I was taught: “it seems to have always been a male dominated world.”  Really?

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Sometimes I believe women let men believe they are in charge.  I think there is much evidence to support the view that despite differences in appearance, humans cannot function without a close partnership between the sexes.  Each has characteristics making them important to survival. When there are few people and the priority is to multiply and populate, the traditional family unit becomes vital for a group of humans to survive.  There is limited time and resources available for anything but sticking with what enhances the prospects for survival. In that circumstance what each is more suited for cast them into particular jobs in general but, that is not where the story ends.  Variation in both sexes confuses stereotypical classification; the brain power is virtually identical and physical prowess (or lack of it) is subject to individual specialization.  It may be that the only real difference is women bear our children and have the ability to nourish infants with breast milk and men cannot.  Almost all other differences are just apparent differences; this is because humans chose to believe how things should be and then act out what is assumed to be correct.  Often people are motivated predominately by what they like; each sex enjoys the differences between the sexes in some way, and so for the most part the accepted norm continues.  So what does history indicate to me, concerning the role of the sexes in society over time?

 Sometimes men seem to be in charge and sometimes women seem to be.

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When there are few people and the priority is to multiply and populate, the traditional family unit becomes vital for a group of humans to survive.  There is limited time and resources available for anything but sticking with what enhances the prospects for survival. Obtaining food, shelter and physical security is paramount.

 

 

New opportunities arise.

Gradually as the basic needs become assured some individuals can pursue endeavors beyond mere survival: Specialization is then possible.  Political leadership, religious leadership, career warriors, health-care specialists all become possible; the group initially affords them by sharing resources willingly but as the society expands the need for taxing may then become necessary.

Some of the leadership roles can be assumed by women and they may even choose not to bear children.  This is fine as long as the group as a whole has sufficient population growth to fill vacancies as people age and become less productive: in good times even elderly members may be cared for despite their inability to contribute much in the physical sense.  The society develops a tradition concerning roles for males and females and then after a time the pattern becomes the social norm resisting further change unless dire circumstances force it.

Change can evoke fear in some people.

Humans tend to fear change and reject it when there is too much of it, when there is too wide a variation, or if change happens with too rapid a pace.   This aversion to alteration usually persists long after survival needs had been met, and when patterns mature to become in grain they acquire a sense that “we have always done it that way, so why change?” Social innovation may be slow in coming without strong influences pressing for it.

And so today we are living in a multi cultural world with extensive global trade, extreme specialization and rapid social change challenging almost all the people on the planet.  The pace and amount of change varies in different degrees but the influences of easy travel, social networking and technological advances is irresistible .  What was normal is challenged; what is normal is challenged ; what could become normal is challenged,.  All these challenges force humans to adopt and adapt now, if they have not done so already – this is done in spite of the risk of “growing pains”.

Examples of woman rising up to meet a challenge are not so rare.

Throughout history regardless of when or where women have arisen to leadership –  even within a male dominated tradition – some have led, defended, defined or discovered in important ways.  I see only more opportunity in the times ahead for women to expand their influence and their roles.  To gain an understanding of what women are capable of doing just examine the list via the link below and read the stories of notable women from throughout history:

See  “100 Important Women of History”  http://www.angelfire.com/anime2/100import/

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When survival becomes a dim memory non-traditional roles abound: Does it matter? What aspects of human progress do we depend on most?

What is familiar gives us comfort and furnishes a sense of identity, a place called home, a recognizable society and a reassuring cultural (a lens for understanding).  Brave new worlds are challenging for most people, upset many people , generate fear and prompt insecurity in some people.  So overall while some people welcome change many do not (at least not easily). Perhaps a slow pace of change can allow more people to adopt, and adapt because rapid change often is unsettling and reaction to it prompts a counter productive risk.  And yet change still can occur anyway.  Having said that, I recognize change is an ongoing process that cannot be stopped; it cannot be stopped because it is part of a natural progression that is the way reality works on our planet (and probably for all of the cosmos).  Since the echoes from the distant past often still reverberate within us, this legacy helps us make sense of it all; how we come to judge what works and what does not is recognized by the realized outcomes of past change?  What is now, is compared to what once was, and the process never stops.

Observing more women in roles that were traditionally taken by men should not automatically be rejected or instill fear in our culture.  The socioeconomic structure can handle it (in fact it may be necessary: i.e. during World War II women replaced men in factories for example). Humanity has much less need for what was established during a period when population growth was paramount, and what roles were adopted when they were essential for survival.  Still, I must interject that the foundation layer of the human experience really has not changed and, still is important though not so much to increase the population, but as an emotional foundation for well-balanced individuals who will join the society.

My bottom line:

Yes there is another side to this progression of change in my opinion: though we can see the merits of change and embrace some of it quite well, I believe we still need to cling to the traditional family unit – no vision of Aldous Huxley for me or for many other people I suspect is acceptable.  We should cling to the family unit because children benefit and therefore society benefits: people are less emotionally challenged, learn right from wrong early, have a sense of identity and a place to call home. This is in my opinion of course, but if I had time I probably could produce some evidence for the positive effects derived for those nurtured within traditional families and the benefits for society. 

People nurtured from within a traditional family unit are less likely to violate social rules or be abusive; more likely to be law-abiding, civil and productive.  Families that are fostered in love, promote caring and peace that often spreads well beyond the family unit itself. Families grounded in true Christian principals experience much comfort and are the example for what the good side of humanity can demonstrate.  It proves that our existence within this dispensation can improve because we have the knowledge, means and motivation for doing so.

So, how are women rising?

 Rare Book Division, The New York Public Library. "DINNER [held by] HAMBURG-AMERIKA LINIE [at] EN ROUTE ABOARD FURST BISMARCK (SS;)" New York Public Library Digital Collections. Accessed January 26, 2016. http://digitalcollections.nypl.org/items/510d47db-6815-a3d9-e040-e00a1806

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Woman are rising because with more specialization, understanding and the recognition that the female mind is as competent as the male mind, more woman can contribute to society in more ways than what some traditions limit them to. So not only should they be considered equal contributors to men, they should be paid at the same rate as men are paid, for the same job when they do the same work.  Women have always been as vital as men for the survival of humans and it is time to see in what ways they are similar and in what ways they are different for real. This knowledge will allow us to get the maximum good from both sexes: symbiotic and complementary scenarios together ensure people get the best of what life has to offer. Yes similarities and differences both can be harnessed for the advantage of our total and complete society.

Achieving our goals is more enjoyable when the partnership of the family unit (a man a woman and their children engaged in a social partnership) are extended to other aspects of society in my opinion.  So not only do the children raised in a traditional family unit have a better chance for a better outcome, so do the men and women embedded within a secure personal relationship as well.  Exceptions are expected but I am convinced the benefits go far beyond the individuals and it offers “the good” to all people.

What guidance do Christians obtain from God’s Word about this?

What Christians are taught amounts to “realistic common sense“; division of labor that makes use of the advantages each sex brings into the relationship and the recognition of different emotional and physical requirements for each: man and woman become one unit.  The relationship is to be governed by the spirit of unconditional love and dwell within a permanent loyal commitment to each other.  The fruits of the man-woman relationship do change over time but these changing needs associated with age can be met within the traditional framework quite well.  Yes, each can meet the needs of their partner throughout their entire life from child rearing years on through to the years of old age. Nothing can replace the joy and fulfillment of a close relationship that has accommodated these changes over a lifetime.

In conclusion, all this love and the relationship’s beauty, demonstrates to all and, interacts with the people who live it and the people who come in contact with it.

Excerpts from scripture that define roles for Men and Woman:

Galatians 3:28 ESV (Equality)

There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.and

 InEphesians 5:21,22,25 ESV (Relationships)

21 submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. . . . 25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, . . . 

Judges 4:4 ESV (Leadership)

4 Now Deborah, a prophetess, the wife of Lappidoth, was judging Israel at that time.

Genesis 1:27 ESV (In God’s image)

27 So God created man (I see this as “people”)* in his own image, in the image of God he created him (“them”); male and female he created them.  (*my words in italics)

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The Mind Behind the Gun

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People with an evil perspective murder with guns and other weapons.

Art and Picture Collection, The New York Public Library. “Fort Knox: Colt automatic pistol.” The New York Public Library Digital Collections.

We here in The United States of America live in a society that is in the midst of several trends that are able to alter our National identity in a negative way.  A free land with cherished liberty that now is trending toward: stringent identification requirements; has the most incarcerated people per 100,000 people (more than any other large nation) in the world; now has less opportunities for lower income youth then it once had; now has a larger income gap between low income workers and the affluent of  the society.  These characteristics and several others amount to one big complex paradox from my point of view.  Along with these concerns are the inexplicable trends that our school children seem to face: they are not learning about our history or World history for that matter. The knowledge gained from the study of both, enable people to better understand the dynamics of governments and their effects upon the governed.  Last, we seem to be losing a strong national identity which includes high moral standards, respect for one another and respect for authority.  A solid widespread use of one national standard  language is weaker and a sound spiritually grounded understanding of right and wrong appears less clear to many citizens.  Both of these seem to be becoming diffuse. This weakening of our “American Identity” puts us at risk of becoming so disintegrated we may become a second rate country.  Things like relativism and political correctness reduce our clear position on vital issues so much so that we risk loosing our role as preeminent free Nation and leader in the Free World.  Ironic that the land that produced so many of the improvements for the lives of “common men and women” is, in danger of some improvements becoming just a thing of the past (a shadow of what we once were). So how do we begin the recovery process?

We must revitalize the basic family unit here in The United States.

Manuscripts and Archives Division, The New York Public Library. "Typical American Family - Family walking" The New York Public Library Digital Collections. 1935 - 1945.
Manuscripts and Archives Division, The New York Public Library. “Typical American Family – Family walking” The New York Public Library Digital Collections. 1935 – 1945.

Humans are not perfect, they can be hypocritical and most lack the skills of a seasoned diplomat yet, most can establish a family unit that nurtures children and readies them to become contributing citizens.  Civil, law abiding and productive; well prepared to raise a family of their own.  This was the way I saw life moving along during the 1950’s when I was a child.  Of course I have since learned people are all unique and variation is normal; almost nothing that is associated with humans is perfect.  The lack of perfection can be used as an excuse by people who want to avoid, responsibilities,  not work and not exercise self control: it is easy to say, “I did the best I could.”  Yet when people sincerely try to do the right things, they do contribute to the positive activities in the society they are part of, and while there is variation the negatives then have less effect.  Where do we acquire the necessary foundation for the establishment and maintenance of high quality family units?  I find the guidance for having and running a family is clearly defined in The Holy Bible.  The underling moral fiber that made our Nation great comes from the overwhelming positive effect of the Christians who have lived here.

I am not just being nostalgic about family life in the past, I think we need it.

Examples in the Holy Bible yield a great deal of guidance for people about family life.  Do not pick verses or sections out that reveal human failings, but instead seek the revealed good and apply it to your life.  The adherence to the essence of the Ten Commandments and the principles disclosed for Christian living, will produce a better United States of America.  In that case I believe more people will be good citizens and the Nation will prosper and, we all will experience greater peace.

Yes the U.S.A. would have a better society if we have more real family units.

Dad goes to work Mom stays home with the kids at least until they all are pupils and then work part time only, and only if necessary. It would be a good start and it can be accomplished.  I know that the economic pressures are great and the high divorce rate yields many single parent homes but these challenges can be mitigated too.  If we strive as a people who want to return to what was good about the past we will achieve it.  We will become a Nation comprised of quality family units, able to teach their children behavior that is respectful, self controlled and productive. We must begin this process in the homes when the children are at an early age; then we will improve our Nation’s quality of life.  And If so, we will discover that the mind behind the gun will no longer be a threat to people as the current trend indicates.  Yes I believe If children are taught about ‘good’ early the manifestation of evil will diminish.  At the very least I believe the negatives will be lessened immensely.

 

Schomburg General Research and Reference Division, The New York Public Library. "[An African American family; Reading books.]" The New York Public Library Digital Collections. 1922.
Schomburg General Research and Reference Division, The New York Public Library. “[An African American family; Reading books.]” The New York Public Library Digital Collections. 1922.

Some Bible advice for Family Life (ESV) :

Exodus 20:13  “Thou shall not murder.”

Proverbs 22:6  Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

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