Affluenza a Dangerous Trend

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I was taught ignorance of the law is no excuse.

 

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The case of the Texas teen who had become intoxicated and drove his pickup truck in such a way as to kill several people neither was he old enough to drive nor drink alcoholic beverages; yet a defense of ignorance seemed to work well enough for him to escape justice with probation only without jail time. Why would an underage child behave in such an irresponsible way?  What did their parents think? How did they react?  Perhaps what their defense attorney presented gives us some idea of this child’s home life. Too Young to Carry on Like an Adult 

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What was behind this miscarriage of justice?  When the defense attorney revealed that the defendant was a member of an affluent family that neither corrected his behavior nor instructed him as to what was right or wrong  an argument that he deserved leniency was offered.  It seems he could not avoid misbehaving because he was not taught how to behave well.  I believe there is a lot wrong with this whole situation and not just the lenient sentence.

The United States of America I grew up in was not shy to put forth a high standard for the conduct of its citizens – juvenile or adult.

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My family used the Ten Commandments as a guide, as did my school, as did my local, State and Federal governments.  My church expounded on the finer details and taught how they applied in our modern world.  No the society in the past was not perfect. Yet even with its problems it did not seem as troubled as it is today.  I think it is more than how the media reports the news.afforded

Movies

The entertainment industry very often used plots that illustrated how the standard for our civilization worked.  In time a process of easing up on the standard began to have an effect however.  Now most movies I consider viewing for enjoyment have some aspect within the story line that makes me cringe.  Not just violence; not just explicit (or nearly explicit) sex.  It is the ever-increasing use of profanity even uttered by young characters that offends my wife and me.

Two World Wars forced humanity to move from Modernism to Post Modernism: Humanity reaped the horrors of war because civilization failed to protect people from wide-spread manifestations of evil.

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Thinkers within the sphere of philosophy led the way into relativism, but soon artists, writers and then governments became energized with this liberal way of thinking.  It did not take long before every day citizens embraced the new liberal way of life as well.  One by one taboos fell.  One by one standards slackened.  One by one even some offensive aspects of society were displayed unblushingly because of this new-found freedom.  It did not seem to matter who was offended as long as free speech and liberal behavior was allowed free rein. Consequences in this mind-set are to be ignored at the worst or minimized at best.

Cultural upheaval was more than “Sex, Drugs and Rock’n’roll” it also invaded government, schools and even some churches.

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Ordinary people – the everyday family with a stay at home mom and working dad – were bath in a constant din of movements bringing forth some obscure minority view than, insisting on a change in its favor.  This new definition of what was good could dominate everything despite the reality that it was only promoted by a few; now the many had to allow the few to define what our civilization would be like instead of the other way around.

I was taught in classes on citizenship that in The U.S.A the majority rule included a safe guard for minority views as the many set our nation’s course. Could a real sociological and cultural Apocalypse be in our future? Perhaps like the dystopia portrayed in Clockwork Orange (movie from 1971) 

Junk The Miriam and Ira D. Wallach Division of Art, Prints and Photographs: Photography Collection, The New York Public Library. "Shabby houses and junk across street from new apartment house. Washington, D.C." New York Public Library Digital Collections. Accessed February 17, 2016. http://digitalcollections.nypl.org/items/ba309cea-9140-4288-e040-e00a18066c61 Tomb Stones X
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Today it appears the minorities set our course and the majority view is not safe guarded but rather demonized.  Can an old-fashioned view of our culture lead to punishment of people who belong to this majority view?  Consequences that offend, weaken and erode the fabric of our nation often seem irrelevant.

Once again I state as a Christian, that the standard for individuals and nations is revealed within The Holy Bible.  Instead of seeking out hypocrisy and failings of some people declaring these principles as a failure, we as a nation we should examine all the good that the principles contained in The Holy Bible have provided for humanity.  These principles have improved the state of humanity and should be reexamined and in my opinion re-applied to our society and culture.

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Excerpts from scripture about consequences for breaking laws:

Colossians 3:25 ESV

For the wrongdoer will be paid back for the wrong he has done, and there is no partiality.

Romans 13:1 ESV

Let every person be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those that exist have been instituted by God.

Proverbs 14:12 ESV

There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death.

Proverbs 20:1 ESV

Wine is a mocker, strong drink a brawler, and / 4 helpful votes whoever is led astray by it is not wise.

Matthew 5:37 ESV

Let what you say be simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything more than this comes from evil.

James 5:12 ESV

But above all, my brothers, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath, but let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no, so that you may not fall under condemnation.

Proverbs 29:15 ESV

The rod and reproof give wisdom, but a child left to himself brings shame to his mother.

Proverbs 11:21 ESV

Be assured, an evil person will not go unpunished, but the offspring of the righteous will be delivered.

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Wisdom, How to Get It

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Are people born wise or do they acquire wisdom somehow?

wisdom

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/wisdom

noun wis·dom \ˈwiz-dəm\

Simple Definition of wisdom

  • : knowledge that is gained by having many experiences in life

  • : the natural ability to understand things that most other people cannot understand

  • : knowledge of what is proper or reasonable : good sense or judgment

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Wisdom seems like an easy subject to identify and explain yet if we examine what we consider wisdom to be out side of any context we may discover it is not a one size fits all attribute.  Can animals have wisdom within their sphere of existence?  If a person is considered wise in one culture can that translate well into another culture?  Is there a baseline for wisdom that allthose destined to be considered wise possess and then they acquire what they need to know how to be wise within their reality?  Is wisdom translatable from one society to another?  Just from my point of view I believe wisdom is recognizable though its function may be fine tuned for a particular milieu.

In  1 Kings 3:16-28 Solomon after hearing a plea from two different women to grant a child to them and after finding it difficult to rule in favor for one or the other, he tells his guard to cut the child in two knowing the real mother would rather yield than see her child slain.  The wisdom in this story transcends time and culture.  When Neil Armstrong was faced with a computer glitch he chose to land the LM (Lunar Module) manually a type of wisdom apropos for space exploration a unique time in human history.  Still, if Neil Armstrong was in an ancient war in a chariot I suspect his skill potential probably would have led him to a pertinent solution for a predicament he may have been in then and there.  In other words, something about Neil Armstrong favors his ability to acquire skills and knowledge leading to wise decisions.  Possibly?

In The United States of America a great deal of information is available to just about every citizen but wisdom sometimes seems lacking.

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Ok in general US citizens are educated, knowledgeable about life’s pit falls and can find information and counseling for just about every situation or topic.  Then why is the divorce rate around 50%, deaths annually are over 30,000 from automobile accidents and a myriad of foolish criminal acts happen almost continuously?  Poor decisions with investments, drug use and purchases aboundall

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despite an educated population with access to information that people on Earth have never had.  It appears sometimes people may either be lazy or would rather take a chance where no risky decision  be made.

People need to care about what they choose to do.

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People are like the proverbial horse who refused to drink.  All the information sources, expert professionals  and abundant free advice is wasted if people chose not to make use of them.  There are esoteric fraternities, clubs and organizations also willing to help their members if only a person would ask.  Even religion can help: religions offer good recommendations as to how to function well within a society.

What do Christians believe concerning wisdom?

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Christians look to God for their source of wisdom.  Below you will find just alla bit of information that comes from scripture concerning allwisdom.  In the Bible you can find advice about wisdom: examples concerning many of life’s typical situations that turn out well for those who are wise, as opposed to those who are not.  As a Christian I believe the beginning of wisdom begins with the fear (respect for) of God.

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Excerpts from scripture about wisdom:

James 1:5 ESV

If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.

Proverbs 10:23 ESV

Doing wrong is like a joke to a fool, but wisdom is pleasure to a man of understanding.

Proverbs 12:15 ESV

The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice.all

Proverbs 19:20 ESV

allmyriadlackingListen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future.

Proverbs 14:16 ESV

One who is wise is cautious and turns away from evil, but a fool is reckless and careless.

2 Chronicles 1:7-12 ESV

In that night God appeared to Solomon, and said to him, “Ask what I shall give you.” And Solomon said to God, “You have shown great and steadfast love to David my father, and have made me king in his place. O Lord God, let your word to David my father be now fulfilled, for you have made me king over a allpeople as numerous as the dust of the earth. Give me now wisdom and knowledge to go out and come in before this people, for who can govern this people of yours, which is so great?” God answered Solomon, “Because this was in your heart, and you have not asked possessions, wealth, honor, or the life of those who hate you, and have not even asked long life, but have asked wisdom and knowledge for yourself that you may govern my people over whom I have made you king, wisdom and knowledge are granted to you…

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Speed Limits, Traffic Rules and More

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Each bending or ignoring of the rules does not seem like much when viewed in isolation.

I have read about corrupt governments, terrorist enclaves, lawless no-man’s lands and places of weak law enforcement around the World. Maybe you have too. Maybe you think or even say, “I am sure glad I live in The United States.” You may also wonder how people around the world could tolerate or even support such despicable behavior from their fellow citizens.

Do we have the best country in the world?

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Statistics can be manipulated, politicians can pander or spin things to suit their purposes – which are often linked to special interests – media can try to subtly sway public opinion . . . and I can go on with describing ways in which everyday citizens can be mislead or even completely fooled yet, what is one really big source of influence that can be used on us all? It is the threat of being labeled disloyal – or even treasonous – because of what we believe, say or do. This can be alluded to or even directly hurled our way when we ask too many questions, want to know how money is being used or disagree with a popular movement. In a country populated with at least 320 million people and in as large an area these United States of America exist in, a myriad of differences of opinion, views and expectations suggest life here can become very complicated if we let it. It is unrealistic to expect that all the people will agree about everything all the time. Still, as a Nation we have a remarkable history of sticking together despite our differences ( at least usually).

In The U.S.A. differences have been a source of strength.

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I can say for a vast land with a large population we have a remarkable ability to remain united (for all practical considerations at least). We do have poor people in depressed areas (and some exist almost everywhere), we do have some people discriminated against and we do have some people living in areas that are below the national standard in terms of what services are there or the quality of those services (i.e. Internet connection speed). Still, we produce plenty of food, have many great roads and even offer some alternative transportation options, provide mostly good quality fresh water for people to use and decent sanitary conditions utilized a very large-scale that is probably is unmatched globally. Still in the interest of fairness and truth, there are a few negatives I should mention.

In this world we know that nothing is perfect; imperfection exists even in the U.S.A.

Injustice does happen, disrespect happens, bullying can threaten some school children, there is hunger and homelessness even in affluent areas; yes some needy people do fall through the cracks of our social safety nets. World comparisons (though often distorted by scale differences) indicate we can do better, in education, in holding the cost of health-care down and in getting more young people into post high school education or job training. We also can do better in correcting the ddiscrepancies in income levels for men versus women, for different races and different regions. We also can do better with managing beneficial government programs especially when they are undermined by special interests and corruption. I have read that each year as much as $50 Billion dollars are lost to corruption in Medicare: if we spent $2 Billion dollars on enforcement of Medicare rules and recovered half of $50 Billion dollars, the enforcement costs would be worth the expenditure. Still, none of these (and a few others not delineated) upset me more than a negative trend I recognize in the everyday experience going about my quintessential daily routines.

Trend: Increasing willingness to bend the rules even break some laws.

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Income inequality, corruption, over or under regulation and the subterfuges hidden in business practices of large entities (private industry or in government agencies) may be a big part of the root cause of this increasing lawlessness. To me is not a valid excuse for this trend but with bad examples I suppose we must expect it; to me these acts in fact reveal selfishness and greed that is even moving toward a disregard for the sanctity of human life – or at the very least a loss of respect for one another. Phrases like, “Every body does it,” ” it is a stupid law anyway,” “How else am I going to get what is due me or get ahead?” Comments like these indicate that the hearts of the people who try to excuse or defend this trend are being worn down by lax moral teaching or strong influence from bad examples. Before I write about the more serious aspects of the decline in the rule of law and weakened practice of civility, I want to tell you about the seemingly “little things” that for the most part do not require assistance from law enforcement, but, degrade the quality of life for many of us and, may be becoming more than just a nuisance or annoyance. These behaviors if they continue to increase encourage rational for bad behavior or the disregard for our fellow citizens‘ rights.

Little white lies and minor violations.

In 1955 when I was eight years old my father started to tell me about “little white lies” but my mother promptly intervened and with a chuckle tapped my father’s shoulder and said, “Stop, he has plenty of time to learn about that.”  That was true, and later I did learn that sometimes not telling the truth about what appears to be a trivial matter could spare someone’s feelings, avoid a senseless argument or avoid admitting to a seemingly benign “something” I may have done.  In all of these situations and many similar ones the “ideal” of always telling the truth, or emulating the myth that George Washington could not tell a lie, produced an inner conflict within me: my religious training contradicted the concept of “how things really are” and what in reality was the sliding scale used to judge what good and bad actually meant.  And now I have even learned that George Washington a father of our country practiced espionage during the Revolutionary War; though for obvious good reason  but learning of this demystification of a national hero, did and does make me feel like I had been fooled when I studied history as a child.

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Like most of my friends and family I gradually learned how much disinformation, omissions of truth and denials worked well to hide my guilt so it would be recognized. I deftly learned when to own up to something so I didn’t get deeper into trouble or deceive in order to stay out of trouble altogether.  in fact the whole culture around me as I matured became a delicate balance of truth verses “little white lies.” Then one day “Bam!” I crossed a line and flirted with doing more serious duplicity; from then on my game of “truth and lies” matured into actually breaking rules willfully, consciously bending laws and even violating a couple of the “Ten Commandments.”

I had to admit some, pay the consequences for some, confess sin sometimes and wrestle with an annoying conscience even if I thought I got away with something.  In order to function I developed a keen “streetwise” sense about daily life and, often that spared me the worst of possible consequences that I could have experienced, for whatever breach of a rule or a law I was responsible for.  I vow that this article isn’t going to become an article of true confessions, I’ll save that story for another time.  I will only say this: the norm of the milieu from which I matured within wasn’t perfect but, there were invisible lines that almost everyone knew not to cross, or unspoken limits not to pass. Comparing that to today’s norm however, almost makes the past look like the days of innocence touted in urban mythology.

The problem with saying, “Yes that is the ideal but this is the way it really is,” allows for a gradual process of ever-increasing tolerance to whatever we may consider in our own minds to be just a “little white lie” and therefore “no big deal.”  Later I will comment on the standard I believe in by which human behavior is judged and why we are incapable of achieving “perfect honesty”, but, I want to emphasize this: in the absence of striving for honesty at a high moral standard lessens the quality of life for most people.  A better trend: trying for the highest standard one can achieve thus reducing life’s negative effects that come from one another.

Now what is the trend toward more serious disregard for others?

So, we accept some degree of hypocrisy in our world and even sometimes come to practice it ourselves – even if inadvertently.  After all, “Nobody’s perfect. Right?” One big problem with that: How and where do we draw the line? Who becomes the person (or persons) who draws the line?  Is where the line sits arbitrary?  Is it immovable?  Is the line extant at all?

Well, we have a government that creates laws and various “police” entities that enforce them.  Still with so large a population as in The United States of America there are way too many people to manage easily, way too laws (sometimes elected officials pass laws as to appear like they are doing something I think) and way too many people willing to bend them.  Even way too many people willing to even break them, so as a matter of practicality the degree of enforce is at best a selective process.  Having to decide which laws to enforce happens out of necessity because of the complexity and huge undertaking it has become.  And so, ignoring some laws and definitely ignoring some immoral behavior results in a de facto allowing them to continue (perhaps with a wink and a sigh) with little or no restriction.  Isn’t this the reality of life now?  So why do I have so much trouble accepting it?

In my lifetime I have noticed the gradual increase of the kinds of lawlessness that degrade the quality of life for many people: headlights too bright (or misaligned), increased recreational drug use creating a bad atmosphere (especially for children), the disregard for speed limits (especially in highway work zones), snow allow to fly off the roof of a vehicle and smash the windshield of the vehicle behind, non physically challenged drivers parking in disability reserved parking, using extra-large tires without mud flaps to stop flinging stones, non courteous driving (non use of directional vehicle lights, no vehicle lights in low viability situations), non courteous shopping behavior in stores or sloppy services provided by technicians, and, a sense that cheating is alright as long as you don’t get caught.  In a climate of “I can pick and chose which laws or rules apply to me, a degradation of the quality of life for the people you share space with is easily achieved.  The lax attitude also makes graduating to perpetrating more serious transgressions a lot easier.

A trend like this is not a joke.

Cheating on taxes, insurance fraud (especially with Medicare) passing in no passing lanes, shoplifting, Affluenza type excuses for failures to obey laws, pilfering, theft, larceny, brutality and with the diminished value of life where even murder for absurd reasons is happening.  Murder for a piece of fruit, for shoes, for a belt or even worse, just for fun.  One more thing, I do not believe there is such a thing as a “victim-less” crime in any case.  Someone does experience physical or emotional (psychological) harm even if the negative effect is not immediately recognizable by an act or behavior.

So to those who scoff at religion, especially “The Ten Commandments” and, scoff at the people who try to obey God’s Law, shame on you; I hope your distorted view of freedom in some way teaches you a personal lesson someday and you come to realize you do need God in your life. I hope you learn that lesson before it is too late.  We all need God.

 The Christian culture and tradition is the best for all people.

First, we Christians become Christians, not because we are better than anyone else, less likely to violate a law, never have bent a rule or have always treated everyone we have encountered with perfection. We have not always been guided perfectly by honoring “The Golden Rule,” have done unto to others what we would have them do to us.  We know we are not perfect.  We know because there is nothing we can do to gain favor with God.  Therefore we accept that Jesus paid for our imperfection (our sins) with his life and from the moment we believe in Him, He covers our faulty image and we begin to change because we are grateful for His work and the ability to begin to acquire a new nature.  We are being transformed from the inside out and that increases our sensitivity to sin so we can learn to turn away from doing wrong more and more each day.  But if we stumble, then we confess, ask for forgiveness and continue on with our transformation of becoming more “Christ-Like.”  We study God’s word and apply what we learn concerning good and bad, what is right from wrong and thus live a better life a little at a time as an ongoing process.

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Yes there are fake Christians who exploit others, mislead others or violate others but those who are sincere, bring good into a world deeply steeped in selfishness, greed and revenge.  I believe God, not because I can be certain of anything.  I accept His truth on faith using my own free will.  For that, I avoid life’s worst pit falls that would be of my own doing; I believe I have eternal life; I strive to do unto others what I would have others do unto me. Yes through Jesus I am assured salvation for eternity and out of gratitude I try to act better everyday.

Conclusion.

In a fallen world we will never experience perfection but with a relationship with God through Jesus Christ and guided by the Holy Spirit, we can do better and, at the same time bring a glimpse of heaven to a world that seems oblivious of God’s desire for all people: God wants all people to enter into His Kingdom and experience eternal salvation and become true children of God.  Free Will makes it your choice.

Excerpts from the Bible that promotes “The Greater Good.”

Jeremiah 29:11 ESV (Future)

11 For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare[a] and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.

A Or peace

Philippians 2:4 ESV (better attitude)

4 Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.

2 Timothy 3:2 – 4 ESV (The way it has become today))

2 For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3 heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, 4 treacherous, reckless, Jeremiah 29:11 ESV (Future) swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God,

Proverbs 21:13 ESV ESV (Ears that do not want to hear)

13 Whoever closes his ear to the cry of the poor will himself call out and not be answered.

Isaiah 5:20 ESV (Calling bad good and good bad)

Woe to those who call evil good and good evil,
who put darkness for light and light for darkness,
who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter!

Romans 2:8 ESV (payment for evil)

8 but for those who are self-seeking[a] and do not obey the truth, but obey unrighteousness, there will be wrath and fury.

a Or contentious

John 3:16 (Salvation through Jesus)

16 “For God so loved the world,that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.

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The Rise of Women

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It is ridiculous to think our world can be run by one sex. In In

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“Self Contained Society”
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OK, throughout history variations in culture and tradition make things appear that people have lived (and some may still live) within a society dominated by one sex: either male or female.  I am referring to what societies considered norms not the exceptions: there always seems to be a person (or persons) who is (are) unique and as an exception to the pattern of the society they have lived in.  How people see what is normal is dependent on the milieu they were born and nurtured in, and this may become so firmly embedded within their being that to them it is the only way it can be.  So within the world and at various times people have come to accept a variety of traditions that define roles for Men and Woman: then, what seems to be the standard is actually just the prevailing view.  What is the predominant view from within my society?  From the historical frame of reference I was taught: “it seems to have always been a male dominated world.”  Really?

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Sometimes I believe women let men believe they are in charge.  I think there is much evidence to support the view that despite differences in appearance, humans cannot function without a close partnership between the sexes.  Each has characteristics making them important to survival. When there are few people and the priority is to multiply and populate, the traditional family unit becomes vital for a group of humans to survive.  There is limited time and resources available for anything but sticking with what enhances the prospects for survival. In that circumstance what each is more suited for cast them into particular jobs in general but, that is not where the story ends.  Variation in both sexes confuses stereotypical classification; the brain power is virtually identical and physical prowess (or lack of it) is subject to individual specialization.  It may be that the only real difference is women bear our children and have the ability to nourish infants with breast milk and men cannot.  Almost all other differences are just apparent differences; this is because humans chose to believe how things should be and then act out what is assumed to be correct.  Often people are motivated predominately by what they like; each sex enjoys the differences between the sexes in some way, and so for the most part the accepted norm continues.  So what does history indicate to me, concerning the role of the sexes in society over time?

 Sometimes men seem to be in charge and sometimes women seem to be.

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When there are few people and the priority is to multiply and populate, the traditional family unit becomes vital for a group of humans to survive.  There is limited time and resources available for anything but sticking with what enhances the prospects for survival. Obtaining food, shelter and physical security is paramount.

 

 

New opportunities arise.

Gradually as the basic needs become assured some individuals can pursue endeavors beyond mere survival: Specialization is then possible.  Political leadership, religious leadership, career warriors, health-care specialists all become possible; the group initially affords them by sharing resources willingly but as the society expands the need for taxing may then become necessary.

Some of the leadership roles can be assumed by women and they may even choose not to bear children.  This is fine as long as the group as a whole has sufficient population growth to fill vacancies as people age and become less productive: in good times even elderly members may be cared for despite their inability to contribute much in the physical sense.  The society develops a tradition concerning roles for males and females and then after a time the pattern becomes the social norm resisting further change unless dire circumstances force it.

Change can evoke fear in some people.

Humans tend to fear change and reject it when there is too much of it, when there is too wide a variation, or if change happens with too rapid a pace.   This aversion to alteration usually persists long after survival needs had been met, and when patterns mature to become in grain they acquire a sense that “we have always done it that way, so why change?” Social innovation may be slow in coming without strong influences pressing for it.

And so today we are living in a multi cultural world with extensive global trade, extreme specialization and rapid social change challenging almost all the people on the planet.  The pace and amount of change varies in different degrees but the influences of easy travel, social networking and technological advances is irresistible .  What was normal is challenged; what is normal is challenged ; what could become normal is challenged,.  All these challenges force humans to adopt and adapt now, if they have not done so already – this is done in spite of the risk of “growing pains”.

Examples of woman rising up to meet a challenge are not so rare.

Throughout history regardless of when or where women have arisen to leadership –  even within a male dominated tradition – some have led, defended, defined or discovered in important ways.  I see only more opportunity in the times ahead for women to expand their influence and their roles.  To gain an understanding of what women are capable of doing just examine the list via the link below and read the stories of notable women from throughout history:

See  “100 Important Women of History”  http://www.angelfire.com/anime2/100import/

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When survival becomes a dim memory non-traditional roles abound: Does it matter? What aspects of human progress do we depend on most?

What is familiar gives us comfort and furnishes a sense of identity, a place called home, a recognizable society and a reassuring cultural (a lens for understanding).  Brave new worlds are challenging for most people, upset many people , generate fear and prompt insecurity in some people.  So overall while some people welcome change many do not (at least not easily). Perhaps a slow pace of change can allow more people to adopt, and adapt because rapid change often is unsettling and reaction to it prompts a counter productive risk.  And yet change still can occur anyway.  Having said that, I recognize change is an ongoing process that cannot be stopped; it cannot be stopped because it is part of a natural progression that is the way reality works on our planet (and probably for all of the cosmos).  Since the echoes from the distant past often still reverberate within us, this legacy helps us make sense of it all; how we come to judge what works and what does not is recognized by the realized outcomes of past change?  What is now, is compared to what once was, and the process never stops.

Observing more women in roles that were traditionally taken by men should not automatically be rejected or instill fear in our culture.  The socioeconomic structure can handle it (in fact it may be necessary: i.e. during World War II women replaced men in factories for example). Humanity has much less need for what was established during a period when population growth was paramount, and what roles were adopted when they were essential for survival.  Still, I must interject that the foundation layer of the human experience really has not changed and, still is important though not so much to increase the population, but as an emotional foundation for well-balanced individuals who will join the society.

My bottom line:

Yes there is another side to this progression of change in my opinion: though we can see the merits of change and embrace some of it quite well, I believe we still need to cling to the traditional family unit – no vision of Aldous Huxley for me or for many other people I suspect is acceptable.  We should cling to the family unit because children benefit and therefore society benefits: people are less emotionally challenged, learn right from wrong early, have a sense of identity and a place to call home. This is in my opinion of course, but if I had time I probably could produce some evidence for the positive effects derived for those nurtured within traditional families and the benefits for society. 

People nurtured from within a traditional family unit are less likely to violate social rules or be abusive; more likely to be law-abiding, civil and productive.  Families that are fostered in love, promote caring and peace that often spreads well beyond the family unit itself. Families grounded in true Christian principals experience much comfort and are the example for what the good side of humanity can demonstrate.  It proves that our existence within this dispensation can improve because we have the knowledge, means and motivation for doing so.

So, how are women rising?

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Woman are rising because with more specialization, understanding and the recognition that the female mind is as competent as the male mind, more woman can contribute to society in more ways than what some traditions limit them to. So not only should they be considered equal contributors to men, they should be paid at the same rate as men are paid, for the same job when they do the same work.  Women have always been as vital as men for the survival of humans and it is time to see in what ways they are similar and in what ways they are different for real. This knowledge will allow us to get the maximum good from both sexes: symbiotic and complementary scenarios together ensure people get the best of what life has to offer. Yes similarities and differences both can be harnessed for the advantage of our total and complete society.

Achieving our goals is more enjoyable when the partnership of the family unit (a man a woman and their children engaged in a social partnership) are extended to other aspects of society in my opinion.  So not only do the children raised in a traditional family unit have a better chance for a better outcome, so do the men and women embedded within a secure personal relationship as well.  Exceptions are expected but I am convinced the benefits go far beyond the individuals and it offers “the good” to all people.

What guidance do Christians obtain from God’s Word about this?

What Christians are taught amounts to “realistic common sense“; division of labor that makes use of the advantages each sex brings into the relationship and the recognition of different emotional and physical requirements for each: man and woman become one unit.  The relationship is to be governed by the spirit of unconditional love and dwell within a permanent loyal commitment to each other.  The fruits of the man-woman relationship do change over time but these changing needs associated with age can be met within the traditional framework quite well.  Yes, each can meet the needs of their partner throughout their entire life from child rearing years on through to the years of old age. Nothing can replace the joy and fulfillment of a close relationship that has accommodated these changes over a lifetime.

In conclusion, all this love and the relationship’s beauty, demonstrates to all and, interacts with the people who live it and the people who come in contact with it.

Excerpts from scripture that define roles for Men and Woman:

Galatians 3:28 ESV (Equality)

There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.and

 InEphesians 5:21,22,25 ESV (Relationships)

21 submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. . . . 25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, . . . 

Judges 4:4 ESV (Leadership)

4 Now Deborah, a prophetess, the wife of Lappidoth, was judging Israel at that time.

Genesis 1:27 ESV (In God’s image)

27 So God created man (I see this as “people”)* in his own image, in the image of God he created him (“them”); male and female he created them.  (*my words in italics)

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